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From: Unknown
Date: August 16/06
well i havent got a boy friend and i want one & need one please tell me how 2 get one?
Heya,
Firstly you do not NEED a boyfriend. :) I find a lot of young people want a boyfriend for the simple status of it. Wouldn't it be better to be patient? Don't rush into things. No need to hurry. If you wait and just be yourself the right guy will definitely come along. Be confident in who you are, be talkative if you need someone you like (but not too talkative), and drop hints if someone catches your interest. Also, try not to fear rejection. If you can do that while being yourself, I'm sure you'll have no problem getting a boyfriend soon. Good luck! <33
-Poonam

From: Erica
Date: July 28/06
see theirs this friend i like we have been friends since 2nd grade see me and one of my friends (not the one i like) was at this party while at the party my friend told the boy i liked that i liked him after the party my friend said the the boy i liked told her he would go out with me except he had a girlfriend ever since the friend i like has been acting weird. i haven't seen him in a little while whats up with my friend and what should i do?
Heya,
Hmm well I can't exactly show what your friend has been thinking because I do not know. He could be weirded out because he does like you and do not know how to react to you. Or he could feel he'd be disloyal to his girlfriend if he spoke to you? I'd suggest talking to your friend about it. You don't have to be so direct. A simple "What's up with you? I haven't seen you in awhile" or something could do it. See if you can find out what's been on his mind. And if you feel like it, you can even say "I hope you're not avoiding me because of what my friend said, haha" and watch his reaction? That's what I'd do. Hope things work out. Good luck! :)
-Poonam

From: Christa
Date: July 1/06
hey i love ur site!!!! but i need some advice!!! here we go: okay, at school for the 1st part of the year i was the girl who got along with everyone, i had rina, shes my bestie, and i had heaps of other friends. the boys wud all talk 2 me because they trusted me and saw me as a great friend. and all the boys liked this girl called mikayla. and i had no problem with that because i didnt needa bf. but 2 months ago everything changed. the boys stopped liking mikayla and became even better friends with me. then one of me best friends( whos a guy) told me he liked me. and i thought it was great, because hes really nice!!! so me and him are going out, but now people tell me that 4 of my other guy friends like me as well..... and i dont know. should i stick with my bfnow, i love him 2 bits and pieces....but an even better friend of mine who has been my friend longer than my bf now says he likes me......its getting confusing. i dont know what to do all my guy friends are ganging up on each other fighting over me and i hate it. please help me.
Heya,
Hmm well I once read that if you can't decide between the bunch of guys, then you probably don't really like either any of them. If you truly liked a single one, you'd be able to decide whose the right one, know what I mean? Anywho, if you want to choose one I'd suggest writing a pro and con list. Decide which guy's qualities you like and who you're most compatible with. At the end of the day, the right decision will come to you. Good luck! Hope all's well. :)
-Poonam

From: Rahela
Date: July 1/06
You see I like this boy who I think likes me but he also fancied my best friend. He told one of my other friends who he likes and she told my best friend that he still liked her but he told me he didn't. I don't know what to think.
Heya,
Hmm this guy sounds like bad news. He's clearly lying to someone or both. I'd suggest finding a better guy. Besides, wouldn't it be better to move on especially since the case involves your best friend? You both deserve better and I do hope you find better. Best of luck! <33
-Poonam

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