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*Entries are bolded and my advice is underneath and italicized*

From: Eve
Date: October 21/06
hi! look i like tis guy + my m8's asked him out 4 me + he said yes, but he know's and doesnt talk to me. i'm scared he thinks it's this other girl with the same name as me but i really love him! on top of that i'm not confident enough 2 tell him coz his m8's r well big spreaders! i'm really confused wot should i do?! tanx bye
Heya,
Heya, Well firstly if your friend asked him out for you and he said yes, but the two of you don't talk...then it is not a relationship. And secondly, 'love' is far too strong of a word to be used to describe how you feel, in my opinion. Since your friend talked to him before, why don't you suggest she go up to him and tell him to talk to you? Also get your friend to make sure the guy knows it's actually you she was refering to. In order for something to happen, you guys have to talk. You do not need to begin talking to him but telling him how you feel. Talk to him, get to know each other, and then see how things are between the two of you. That's my advice. Good luck with the situation. Hope I was some help. If you need anything else, just ask.
-Poonam

From: Annoymous
Date: October 8/06
i have 3 boys on my mind - im goin out wiv 1 but i cant trust him. i cant get another off my mind, i dream about him and everything. the last one 1 really fancie. what can i do?
Heya,
Well firstly I'd say trust is important in a relationship. If you can't trust the guy you're with, the relationship isn't healthy and probably won't last. As far as the next 2 guys, maybe try and figure out how they feel about you? And then look for which guy you'd be more compatible with (have things in common, feel most comfortable around, etc). Figure out whether you truly like the guy, or just feel lust towards him. Good luck in figuring it out. :) If you need anything else, just ask.
-Poonam

From: Erica
Date: September 6/06
see now the best friend i was talking about that i liked is moving to mayfield, well now has moved to mayfield. and i miss him a lot. see we where best friends and just recently my aunt died and i feel like she's the only person who understands me. and the only real friend that i have therissa, she acts like we aren't really friends anymore. we hardly talk i feel so alone. what should i do? i feel like my aunt and my best friend jonathan are the only people thats understand me. like i said what should i do?
Heya,
To begin, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your aunt. <3 As far as your situation, I can def. understand how it must feel to have the two people that you cared a great deal about not in your life anymore. Are you able to still keep in contact with your best friend? If you talk to him online/email him you probably will feel a lot better. As well, maybe talk to therissa about how you feel? Let her know you feel like the two of you aren't how you used to be. Maybe try to be a bit more social...Join a club at school to get to know more people? If you keep yourself busy, you won't feel as lonely perhaps? Good luck. Hope I was some help! <3
-Poonam

From: Annoymous
Date: September 1/06
Im feeling that I am flanking school and I am hopeless..I feel like Im gonna die...I want to die!!!What should I do???Im so unhappy...and also...I liked this guy a lot but he doesn't even notice me?Should I go for a diet?Talk to him even in front of some of his rude friends???Im shy when it comes to him....
Heya,
To begin start looking for the positive things in life. There's a lot of things in life that make it worthwhile to live. You gotta look for those things. Don't stress too much over school. Getting bad grades isn't the end of the world. My advice would be when you don't understand something or have difficulties, talk to your teachers. Approach them after class. One on one time with a teacher can be really useful. As far as the guy is concerned, I'd suggest talking to him. Approach him with a group of friends maybe? Sit near him in class? You can begin by asking him questions, initiating a disucssion, etc. And I don't think you should go on a diet to impress a guy. If you feel you need to diet, do it for yourself. And do it right. Get advice from a doctor on the proper way to diet. Good luck with the situation. If you need anything else, just ask. <3
-Poonam

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